Pleasure Salon – Back to School Bash for Perverted Pupils of All Adult Ages

September 3, 2008
6:00 PMto8:00 PM

Pleasure Salon will be starting the new semester off right with this month’s quickly approaching gathering:

Pleasure Salon – Back to School Bash for Perverted Pupils of All Adult Ages
Host: Patricia Johnson
Location: Happy Ending, 302 Broome St., New York, NY 10002

6-8 p.m. Open Bar with Espiritu Liquor

Wednesday, September 3rd at Happy Ending Lounge. We will be here the first Wednesday of every month. (10/1, 11/5, 12/3)

The Pleasure Salon has been created to build community, allowing sex-positive activists to cross-pollinate. Our gatherings bring together members of the BDSM, swinger, alternative gender, LGBT, sex-activist, nudist, sex-magic, polyamory, Pagan, radical faerie, tantra, dark odyssey, sex-blogger, porn, pervert and sex-worker communities, and others whose passion is sex. (Let us know if we missed any one of you!) Through building networks in the sex-positive community, The Pleasure Salon hopes to help create a sex-positive world. It is a place for the open exchange of ideas and sensual expression.

We have been thrilled by the turnout at previous gatherings. A community of New York area Pleasure Positive folks is developing rapidly, and we hope that you will join us or continue to be part of it. Please invite your like-minded friends. In keeping with the spirit of Dark Odyssey, we encourage everyone to embrace the basic principles of respect, tolerance, acceptance, openness, and non-judgmental support.

Hope to see you there!

LSM: Leather Pride Demo on Flogging with Jo Arnone

June 20, 2008
8:00 PMto11:00 PM

As Leather Pride gets into full swing this June, LSM will be having a very special demo on Flogging, presented by one of their own co-founders Jo Arnone. If you plan on attending, remember to present your CV membership card for a discount! For more information about Jo Arnone and this demo, please read below:

LSM is pleased to present special guest Jo Arnone, co-founder of the Lesbian Sex Mafia, to take us through the painful pleasures of flogging. From the soft caress of deerskin, the sharp sting of a braided cat or the heavy thud of flat tails, a flogging can be sensual, erotic or simply a painful experience. Learn the proper techniques, safety, equipment and the fun of it all. Bring your whips, if you have any. There will be a few available to try as well.

Location: Room 410 at the LGBT Center in Manhattan, 208 West 13th Street. Admission is only $5 for LSM Members, $10 for non-members — and you’ll want to get there early as we expect the room to fill fast.

Jo Arnone has been a member of the NY Leather Community since it’s earliest years and has been teaching flogging to willing audiences for even longer. She is a Co-Founder of LSM and has been the Leather Pride Night Auctioneer for nearly 25 years. During that time she has donated her auctioneering talents to over 150 events all across the United States helping to raise over one million dollars for worthy charities including In the Life, Whitman Walker Clinic, God’s Love We Deliver, Broadway Cares Equity Fights AIDS, and Bucks County Community Services.

Lesbian Sex Mafia is a social and educational organization for women and transfolk (see membership description below) who have a positive personal interest in BDSM with other women. Our tenets are safety, consensuality, confidentiality and the right of women to explore their sexuality as they choose.

Membership in Lesbian Sex Mafia is open to all women 18 years of age or older including gay, straight, bi, and transsexual and intersexed women who live their daily lives as women, and all female-born transgendered persons who have a connection with and respect for the women’s community. Please visit the LSM website for membership information and benefits.

LSM reserves the right to deny admission to non-members it has reason to believe will not abide by the LSM principles of safety, consensuality and confidentiality.

For ASL interpretation request please email LSMNYC@hotmail.com.

No member is turned away from an LSM event based upon ability to pay. Please contact us in advance to request a scholarship.

Pleasure Salon: Return to Sandy Hook, NJ

June 14, 2008
10:00 AMto8:30 PM

Pleasure Salon is a social mixer for the sex-positive and alternative sexuality communities in New York City that typically occurs once a month at a downtown bar and lounge. Their next outing is taking place at Gunnison Beach in Sandy Hook, a clothing-optional beach on the not-too-far-away Jersey Shore and, naturally, you’re invited! You’re sure to see some familiar faces (and more than likely bodies), so make sure to RSVP and plan your trip out there!

Naked On the Beach!

What better way could there be to meet members of the BDSM, swinger, LGBT, sex-activist, nudist, sex-magic, polyamory, radical faerie, tantra, dark odyssey, sex-blogger, and sex-worker communities, and others whose passion is sex? It’s summer. It’s time to escape New York City for some fun in the sun. Amazing things happen each time we cross-pollinate!

Pleasure Salon on the Beach
Saturday, June 14th, 10am to Sunset
If you miss this date, we hope to see you on one of our other beach days, on July 12, and/or August 9th.

Sandy Hook – Gunnison Beach (Clothing Optional)

If traveling by car: Parking Lot G ($10 per car) It fills up fast, so get there early, or you may have a very long walk. Walk to the right of the snack stand. We will have a large “Pleasure Salon” sign.

If interested in carpooling, please indicate in your reply by clicking the car pool option, especially if you can give someone a ride.

If traveling via Public Transportation: East Side Seastreak Ferry at Pier 11 (Wall Street) or at East 34th St in Midtown. Travel time is 35 minutes.
Roundtrip Fare $43 (cash only) ferries leave 34th Street at 8:00am and 10:30am. Returns to Manhattan at 3:45 and 5:45.

Keep in mind – you can only purchase roundtrip tickets for the ferry!

We will bring two large coolers of ice for drinks (alcohol is allowed; all food and drink must be in plastic containers or cans — no glass). There is a snack stand, if you get hungry, or you can bring snacks to share. You should bring at least one bottle of water for yourself.

When you respond to the evite, include your web address or something about yourself, so we can know more about each other. Feel free to bring like-minded friends.

We hope to see you there!

Patricia Johnson, Selina Fire & Mark Michaels

SUSPENSION – “Let’s hang”

June 1, 2008 10:00 PMtoJune 2, 2008 3:00 AM

We just got wind of an upcoming private play party called Suspension, and it sounds like quite an interesting event:

The creators of AVN After Party, Las Vegas, Mike B and Kelley Dane present, a Powder coated production……

SUSPENSION

A private play party.
“Let’s hang”

A night of a thousand kisses, a night of a thousand lashes, when reality falls away and you take flight. Weightless above the earth, you are the breath that stills between intakes of air, the time that exists outside of time, the complete absence of preconception. Reason halted, mystery divined, a celebration of sensation, altered, clarified. Welcomed, you drift high, surrounded by creatures, playing, spinning, dancing, beautiful creatures just like you – suspended.

Sunday June 1, 2008 10 pm till….

Habbi Hookah Lounge

198 Ave A between 12th and 13th Street Manhattan

$7.00 creatively dressed. $15.00 to the mundane. $2.00 discount for students.
A private anything goes play party devoid of judgment and preconceived notions. No cameras, no stage performances, no fans.

Welcome home.

Full bar, hookah service, and open kitchen. 21 and over.
Contact Kelleydane@gmail.com with inquires.

All proceeds go to support the party.

LSM Member Safety & Orientation Workshop

June 1, 2008
3:00 PMto5:00 PM

Check this out if you are interested in finding out more about LSM and becoming a member:

Mark your calendars now! In order to be a full member of the Lesbian Sex Mafia, you must attend one of their Safety & Orientation workshops. This workshop ensures that the entire membership has a common understanding of BDSM and will be able to uphold our basic tenets of safety, consensuality, confidentiality and the right of women to explore their sexuality as they choose. Whether you are an experienced player or a newbie to the scene, please join LSM for Safety & Orientation — and fulfill this important membership requirement! For more information, please contact our Membership Coordinator at LSMNYC@hotmail.com.

Where: The LGBT Center at 203 West 13th Street between 7th and 8th Avenues
Please show up ON TIME. Latecomers will not be admitted!
Cost: $5

Can’t make it to this workshop? Don’t worry – LSM will be conducting future safety and orientation workshops on the first Sundays in September and November.

Kinky Jews and KGB Bar present: An Evening of Jewish Lit-Erotica

May 22, 2008
6:45 PMto9:30 PM

KinkyJews is holding another event.

Featuring:
Tsaurah Litzky, Matthue Roth, Lainie Speiser, Albert Stern and P.K. with Special Musical Guest Avi Fox-Rosen.Readings begin promptly at 7:15pm, so get there before then!

LOCATION: KGB Bar, 85 E. 4th St. at 2nd Ave., New York, NY
Check out http://www.kgbbar.com.

COST: Free

OPEN TO: All

The Floating World 2 returns to Edison, NJ *^_^*

August 15, 2008 5:00 PMtoAugust 17, 2008 8:00 PM

As I’m sure a number of you will remember from last summer, CV was heavily involved with the first year of this event, and made up a formidable population of our own at the festivities. We volunteered, presented, and all-around had an amazing time. For those of you who would be interested in joining us again this year or for the first time, check out the Floating World site for more information.

Should you be interested in going to The Floating World and volunteering (thereby also saving on admission fee), then you should email volunteer@thefloatingworld.org in order to get on the volunteers list. It totally does not keep you from enjoying the rest of the convention. We’re not yet sure of how many hours of work are involved, but last year they said 12 and wound up giving everyone only 8. Make sure to mention that you’re with Conversio Virium!

TES Fest ’08!

July 4, 2008 6:00 PMtoJuly 7, 2008 8:00 PM

They missed last year, but this year they’re planning to be back bigger and better! TESFest is The Eulenspiegel Society‘s (mostly) annual BDSM extravaganza, an event loaded with educational workshops, playtime, and lots and lots of interesting personalities! Check out the TES Fest website for more details.

Should you be interested in going to TesFest for cheaper, then consider emailing tf-volunteers@tes.org to volunteer at the events and get on the volunteer’s list. Volunteering for 12 hours of work gets you free admission to the entire event.

TES: Breath Play with Sir Barry

June 24, 2008
8:00 PMto10:00 PM

Check out this upcoming event from TES:

Does the thought of struggling for air excite you? Does the idea of holding someone by the throat turn you on? Have you heard about “breath play” but considered it too dangerous or simply didn’t know enough about it? Sir Barry explains what breath play is and how to do it safely. This event is open to all.

Location:
260 W 36th Street 3rd floor, between 7th and 8th Avenues @ 8:00pm, doors open at 7:30pm.

Submit Party: BDSM play and sex party for women and transfolk

May 24, 2008 10:00 PMtoMay 25, 2008 3:00 AM

As listed on the promotional material:

$15 bucks before midnight
$20 after
18+

for exact location call 718.789.4053 or
email Red@submitparty.com

Voyeurs & Experienced Players Always Welcome
Women and Transgendered Only

No CD’s No TV’s

Slings ~ Bondage Bed ~ Live Sex ~ Hot Porn ~ Medical Room
~ Shower ~ Kiss ~ Watch ~ Play ~ Flirt ~ Fuck ~ BYOB

for more info:
www.SubmitParty.com
or call 718.789.4053

SWITCH returns! (A monthly women/trans/genderqueer BDSM party)

May 16, 2008 11:00 PMtoMay 18, 2008 3:00 AM

SWITCH returns to Paddles this month:

SWITCH

the all new monthly
women/trans/genderqueer
bdsm party
in a room of our own
behind closed doors
at PADDLES

EVERY 3RD FRIDAY
MAY 16TH
JUNE 20TH

$10
($5 for LSM members)

MAT FOR WRESTLING! BOY FOR BOOTBLACKING!

No experience necessary. No participation required.
We won’t beat you up unless you ask for it.

PADDLES 250 W. 26TH STREET
(enter through parking lot side door facing 8th Avenue)
mailing list/info/volunteer:
switchparty@riseup.net

Pony Romp in the Park

May 3, 2008
1:00 PMto11:55 PM

Thanks to an email from Richard Cordage, one of the new TES-TNG Co-Facilitators, we at CV can bring you information about an exciting upcoming event being hosted not by TES but by Niuka Dragon Stables of which the owner, Reina Darkness, recently held a pony play workshop for TES also. Below is the information for how to register and attend:

Last chance to register for our Pony Romp in the Park event in Central Park, New York City, Fri – Sat, May 2-3, 2008! Click here to register and go to their website to find out all the details of the Romp.

The $45 event registration fee includes the Friday Field Trip with discounts at Purple Passion, the Round Up at the Pony Romp Headquarters, Romping the Park including a cross-country trot down the Ravine and the opportunity to run (or ride) the famous NYC Central Park Bridle Path, pony watering and PG grooming by The Pool, a catered BBQ feast back at HQ, and the Private Pony Play Party!

Please contact us if you have questions or need more information.

I can’t wait to see our ponies under the Central Park Cherry Blossoms!

Best regards,

Ms. Reina
Niuka Dragon Stable

SPAM Party!

May 17, 2008 10:00 PMtoMay 18, 2008 5:00 AM

As listed on the SPAM party web site:

Admission: $10 women/trans $20 men
student’s 18-22 w/valid id FREE!!
Doors close at 2am.
Call for exact location 718.789.4053

Brooklyn’s Nastiest Queer Party!
Mandatory Pants Check Down To Your Underwear!

New expanded space! New equipment!

**NO HETEROSEXUALS ALLOWED** NO SMOKING **
**Other New Rules to Maximize your Fun and Keep It Safe**

Bklyn’s Hottest Sex Party for the entire LBGT community
BYOB~~Hot Music~~WOMEN/TRANS ONLY ROOM~~Queers Only!

Safety’s name of the game with our SPAM quality control experts who
circulate in order to maximize your nasty fun.

For more info and party location please call 718-789-4053

check out spam party at their website
If you have questions, please email Red@submitparty.com

Grapple Den! NYC’s Sweaty Underground Fetish Fight Club

May 14, 2008 9:30 PMtoMay 15, 2008 1:30 AM

We at CV are so happy to announce that Grapple Den, an awesome-looking wrestling party taking place on a regular basis, has approached us to spread the word and find more people to wrestle with. Check out the Grapple Den website for any and all information regarding news and events. Here’s a brief intro of their club, and the info for their next party:

About The Grapple Den Wrestling Party:
NYC’s Sweaty Underground Fetish Fight Club
@ Tagine. 537 Ninth Ave (@40th St)

Underground wrestling, competitive grappling, and physical domination at it’s finest, brought to you by the Grapple Den Association for Recreational Violence.

Come to the neutral meeting ground for pro session wrestlers, fetish wrestlers, and grappling hobbyists.

Watch wrestling performances, come play, come enjoy the straining bodies in action. View a variety of matches as you recline on our couches and enjoy a drink or two. We have female vs female and mixed matches taking place all evening. Male vs male matches take place after midnight.

For you voyeurs, we have *both* ring-side couches and dark corners where you can sit and observe the action.

Our Next Party:
Grapple Den Wrestling Party
May theme = Tribal

Stay tuned. Note that Grapple Den events are all-inclusive unless otherwise noted for specific purpose. Men, women, straight folks, gay folks, trans folks, wrestlers, spectators, young, old, tall, small, and so forth, all are welcome. You just need to sign our liability waiver if you want to wrestle.
All play must be safe, sane, and consensual.

Join Barbara Carrellas for Urban Tantra: Sex and the Tao of Power Exchange

June 5, 2008
7:00 PMto9:00 PM

Barbara Carrellas generously returns as our host into the Tantric workings of our bodies and minds. Please join her if you have not yet experienced her unique and deep workshops that tie in Tantra and BDSM so well together:

This evening we’ll explore the ecstatic potential of conscious erotic power exchange. All our relationships involve an exchange of power. Some of these exchanges are subtle and unconscious, others are intentional and consensual. Using techniques borrowed from both Tantra and BDSM, you’ll learn how to create your own personalized style of power sharing and discover how the conscious, intentional use of active and receptive energies can amp up the energy in any style of erotic relating.
Note: Please attend this workshop with a partner. That partner can be a lover, a friend, or someone you just met. There will be no nudity or explicit sexual touch. Single attendees will be paired at the workshop, with consent, of course. All genders and sexual preferences welcome.

Urban Tantra: Erotic Meditations on Touch with Barbara Carrellas

May 15, 2008
7:00 PMto9:00 PM

The beautiful and talented Barbara Carrellas continues with her amazing Tantra workshops all around the city.

Catch her while she’s still in town!

In this workshop you’ll learn Tantric techniques for building and sharing sexual energy with a partner. Simple techniques such as conscious touch, breath, and movement can expand our concept of gender roles, help us transcend fears of intimacy, and enable us to build and share enormous amounts of sexual and spiritual energy and power. Come and learn how to transform your touch into an energetic exchange of love and bliss.

Note: Please attend this workshop with a partner. That partner can be a lover, a friend, or someone you just met. There will be no nudity or explicit sexual touch. Single attendees will be paired at the workshop, with consent, of course. All genders and sexual preferences welcome.

The workshop will take place at:
Phoenix Temple
65 West 55th Street, Suite 7C
New York, NY

$35. Reservations: sensualshaman@gmail or 646-460-9397.

KinkyJews New York City’s Third Annual Kinky Seder

April 27, 2008
6:00 PMto10:00 PM

Want to spice up your Passover this year? Join KinkyJews for this annual treat:

A Seder like you’ve never experienced before. While maintaining key elements of tradition, celebrate Passover with KinkyJews, as we have a humor and hedonism infused chocolate themed Seder with four cups of chocolate milk, chocolate covered matzah, Hillel S’mores, and more. Have a wild time with the search for chametz kit (candle, feather and wooden spoon), Passover erotica, maggid show and tell, re-enactments slavery and redemption, floggings a-plenty, new friends and fun! Play space is available for use after the afikomen is found.

LOCATION: Grand Space, 778 Bergen Street (at the corner of Grand Street) in Prospect Heights, Brooklyn 11238

RSVP: RSVP by April 23 to contact@kinkyjews.com. A $5 charge will be added to the cost of anyone who RSVPs after April 23.

COST: $30 for couples (any gender), $25 for single men, $10 for women and $10 students under 25. If the cost is prohibitively expensive for anyone, please let our coordinator know at contact@kinkyjews.com.

“SWITCH” it up @ Paddles – new party!

April 18, 2008 11:00 PMtoApril 19, 2008 3:00 AM

Check out SWITCH, the newest monthly BDSM party, set to take place at Paddles. Gina, the organizer, has also asked us to pass on the following message:

“In case anyone is feeling particularly enthusiastic, I’m looking for volunteers for the door! It’s not the door of paddles, and not taking money or anything, but just being in front of the closed doors of the party to let people know it’s going on and that it’s a women/trans/genderqueer party (there will be signs for the door and everything and i’ve been telling people to team up to make it more fun!)”

The party information follows from the promotional material:

SWITCH

the all new monthly
women/trans/genderqueer
bdsm party
in a room of our own
behind closed doors
at PADDLES

EVERY 3RD FRIDAY
APRIL 18TH
MAY 16TH
JUNE 20TH

$10
($5 for LSM members)

MAT FOR WRESTLING! BOY FOR BOOTBLACKING!

No experience necessary. No participation required.
We won’t beat you up unless you ask for it.

PADDLES 250 W. 26TH STREET
(enter through parking lot side door facing 8th Avenue)
mailing list/info/volunteer:
switchparty@riseup.net

Urban Tantra Workshop with Barbara Carrellas

May 4, 2008
8:00 PMto10:00 PM

Head down to Babeland’s Mercer Street location for another workshop hosted by the lovely Barbara Carrellas about her Urban Tantra techniques. For more information regarding this event, please contact Babeland directly at (212) 966-2120, or visit Babeland Events.

Barbara developed Urban Tantra as an approach to sacred sexuality that adapts and blends conscious sex practices ranging from Tantra and Tao to BDSM. The result is a hot and healing brand of sex for the 21st century sensualist.

On the Tantric path, pleasure, vision and ecstasy are celebrated rather than repressed. In other words, when other spiritual practices say no, Tantra says a great big YES. Tantra is not only a sexual practice, it also is a sensuous way of life and path to spiritual growth. In this workshop, you’ll learn Tantric techniques for intense full-bodied orgasms, amazingly deep, heart-centered connections (with a partner or with yourself), and the bliss that comes when your spiritual and sexual paths are one.
We’ll practice techniques and exercises that can help you to:

  • Discover your top ten turn-ons
  • Open your senses and develop your sensuality
  • Unleash your orgasmic energy
  • Attract your ideal lover
  • Create and practice self love
  • Celebrate pleasure, vision and ecstasy

This evening is instructional, and respects personal boundaries. All genders and sexual flavors are welcome.

Book Launch Party at Pleasure Salon

May 13, 2008
7:00 PMto10:00 PM

Pleasure Salon hosts an exciting book launch party! About this upcoming event:

In honor of our connection to Tristan Taormino, whose visionary work inspired the Pleasure Salon, we invite you to join us at Mark, Patricia and Tristan’s joint Book Launch Party, at the Happy Ending Lounge. For the book party, please RSVP by emailing sarah@puckerup.com.