MissL on “Unleashing your Inner Dom(me)”

April 29, 2013
9:00 PMto11:00 PM

Appropriate for all genders and kink identities, MissL and A1ex will talk about how to get in touch with your inner sadist, top or dom/me, and what a good dom/me can do for their sub. Bonus demo scene with the help of CV’s Holli-Quinn about the virtues of co-topping.

Here is a map of Columbia University’s campus. Use it to find Kent Hall:http://files.meetup.com/446022/Columbia%20Universit…

Dress code is casual. All CV classes are free and open to everyone.

CV Presents: Kinky Kombat Class

March 4, 2013
9:00 PMto11:00 PM

Date & Time: Monday, March 04, 2013 · 9:00 PM –11:00 PM
Location: 628 Kent hall 116th & Amsterdam, Columbia University
Dress code: comfortable clothes if you want to participate

Clark will be doing a demonstration on how to wrestle, grapple, spar, and more. General hands-on stuff.

Participation is encouraged, but not required. If you would like to practice moves in the class, wear comfortable clothes and bring a friend (or find one there!)

If you have questions about the class please contact the presenter, the_primal_clark: https://fetlife.com/users/604576

CANCELLED- CV Meeting: Negotiation with RopeBoi

February 18, 2013
9:00 PMto11:00 PM

SORRY THIS EVENT IS CANCELLED TONIGHT. WE WILL BE BACK ON NEXT WEEK.

 

RopeBoi will give us a workshop on negotiation. It is a great class for beginners in the scene or anyone who needs help understanding the art of negotiation.

This event is open to everyone, whether you are affiliated with Columbia University or not. It will be in Schermerhorn Extension, which is at 117th & Amsterdam, Columbia University.

Contact Holli-Quinn (on Fetlife) if you need directions to the building, as it is hard to find on the campus.

Cock Confidence: Strap-On 101, with Sinclair Sexsmith:

November 15, 2010
9:00 PMto11:00 PM

Join us Monday  November 15th in Hamilton 302 for this awesome presentation by Sinclair Sexsmith!

Many of us have experience with strapping on, packing, and playing, but there are lots of new products out there on the market that might be exciting and that you haven’t encountered yet. Writer and sex educator Sinclair Sexsmith talk about what cocks are good for packing, what options are out there for pack-and-play, which harnesses are the most loved, and which to avoid. Plus, she’ll delve into some cock confidence, getting into the psychology of penetration, and discussing what it’s like to shoot from the hip. If you’re a butch, a stud, an AGs or anywhere on the masculine side of center, come get the nuts and bolts of strapping it on and fucking. You’ll learn about positions and lube, how different products work, what “cock confidence” means, and the psychology behind strapping on and playing with a cock with a partner, or with oneself.

The Power of Complex Sex Positivity

This interactive discussion-based workshop will offer a framework that illuminates the importance of complex approach to sex positivity as kinky people. It will examine how sex negativity works, and the pitfalls of a simplistic sex positive perspective. It will also cover ways to respond to sex negativity and kink shame in ourselves and others.

Location: Pending! Somewhere in Hamilton.

CV Meeting: Flogging w/ Valentine!

October 18, 2010
9:00 PMto11:00 PM

Hello CVers! Please join us this upcoming Monday for a lovely flogging demonstration–we haven’t got confirmation from the University re: which room we’ll be using, but I assure you it will be one on the 3rd floor of Hamilton so do stop by! (Also I’ll update this page as soon as I find out). There will be snacks and fun, as always!

See you monday!

CV Meeting: Kinky Science, sort of!

September 27, 2010
9:00 PMto11:00 PM

On 9/27, please join us while we attempt to pervert Science itself.  We will abuse the forces of physics by running 50000 volts through some eager volunteers.  We will exploit chemistry by revealing the terror inducing secrets of polyvinylidene chloride.  We will misuse psychology by reading aloud a small work of interactive fiction.

There will be demos, discussions, and lots of hot safety information.
Bring your lab coats and lab partners – because science is sexy.

Location: Hamilton 302!

CV Meeting: Intro to the Scene/Scene Etiquette.

September 20, 2010
9:00 PMto11:00 PM

On 9/20 please join us for a lovely introduction on joining the NYC BDSM scene! This meeting will be a discussion group of sorts, in which both presenters and members will weigh in on their experiences in the NYC scene and most importantly, what they feel comprises appropriate behavior.

SSC? RACK? What is consent anyhow? Safe play? Let’s talk about it!

Location: Hamilton 316.

Updated CV Meeting: Hellos and Mistakes!

September 13, 2010
9:00 PMto11:00 PM
Okay so being new at this I forgot to reserve a room…the thing is, there might be space anyway. Unfortunately the rope demo won’t be happening but if you’re interested in good food and good company in a space we will stumble upon when the time comes, feel free to meet us in the usual spot.
SO sorry about this, next week will be business as usual!

Location:  Somewhere in Hamilton!! :(

Summer CV begins, now DSD-NYC

May 10, 2010
8:00 PMto10:00 PM

With the end of the school year, yet another set of official of CV meetings has come to a glorious close, leaving many CV’ers with a dearth of kinky social interaction.

Summer CV to the rescue! Now with a new name — DSD (and a website)!

We’ll be having weekly, unofficial, meetups at the Good Stuff Diner, every Monday at 8pm.

What better way to enjoy the blazing heat of an early summer?

Location: 109 West 14th Street, between 6th and 7th Ave.

CV Meeting: Erotic Writing as a Tool

We’re joined by Jack Stratton (http://writingdirty.com/) this week for a workshop in erotic writing.

Erotic Writing as a Tool: Erotica and Sex Blogs as Tools for Negotiation, Seduction and the Articulation of Desire
1. How to use writing as a tool to articulate and process your desires and experiences.
2. How to use sex writing and correspondences as a negotiation tools.
3. How to use erotic writing as a tool of seduction and a way of making partners and prospective partners aware of your desires.

The presentation will include handouts and a short writing exercise in which participants will try and express their desires in artistic ways to communicate to partners and prospective partners.

I’ve presented at Sex 2.0 DC, KinkForAll NY and DC. I’m a published erotic and non-erotic writer with a thriving erotica and sex blog at writingdirty.com

CV Meeting: I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Hurt Me

January 25, 2010
9:00 PMto11:00 PM

Conversio Virium returns January 25th with Mistress Coraline

I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Hurt Me: Playing with a Vanilla Partner

Your lover is sweet, your lover is hot, your lover is… vanilla?!? Not everyone is kinky but a lot of vanilla people are kinkier than they know. We’ll talk about broaching the subject, negotiation for beginners, where to learn the basics, what NOT to do and how to deal if your interests simply cannot match. Kink is a wonderful way to deepen intimacy, explore yourself and your partner, and have a hell of a lot of fun. Isn’t it time your lover found that out?

This class is presented by Coraline, former pro-domme and long time pervert. She entered the scene in 2002 and has learned from and played with some of NYC’s greatest players. She has has taught classes for TES, DSF, WHAP and Galleria Domain 2.

Location: 316 Hamilton Hall, Columbia main campus

Call for Volunteers and Presenters for Spring 2010

As Columbia’s spring semester approaches, CV’s administration is looking to fill up our presentation roster. If you have a new demo, an old demo newly perfected, an idea you’ve wanted to try in front of a live audience, or the narcissistic need to hear yourself talk, CV would love to have you present at one of our meetings. All the information for presenters is available on our website.

Right now, our available dates for the spring 2010 semester: February 1, 8, 15, 22; March 1, 8, 29; April 5, 12, 19, 26; May 3. If you’re worried a date has already been claimed, check our continuously updated planning calendar.

If you are interested in presenting for CV, please e-mail us at conversio@columbia.edu with two or three Monday nights you would be available and the subject on which you would like to present.

Thank you-
Elizabeth B.
President, Conversio Virium

CV End-of-Semester Party

December 14, 2009
9:00 PMto11:00 PM

Sassafras Lowry has elected to avoid inflicting finals-ridden Columbia students with her ongoing case of H1N1 by staying home tomorrow night, rather than regale us with her presentation on Leather Storytelling. She will be making her debut next semester.

Instead, CV will be throwing a small party; food and drink will be provided, CV’s next semester will be discussed, and fun will be had. We promise.

CV Meeting: Trust

December 7, 2009
9:00 PMto11:00 PM

Lolita Wolf joins CV this week to present on trust.

Location: 316 Hamilton Hall, Columbia campus

How do you achieve intimacy and create an awesome, even sacred bond with a partner? How is it that one person allows another to take control over them? Before such a potent understanding is forged between adults, trust needs to exist. Trust can be built up in a number of ways. Come, learn and put to use the communication skills and honorable actions that go hand in hand on the road to complete and total trust.